Tennessee Divorce Info

This blog is general advice and commentary and should not be construed as a substitute for either the need for getting specific advice from a lawyer or from hiring a lawyer.  In Tennessee, Divorces are complex and require the hiring of a lawyer. www.bestclarksvillelawyer.com or you may text me at (931) 217-7648.

Uncontested vs. Contested Divorce

There are two types of divorce in Tennessee:

(1) an uncontested divorce is based on irreconcilable divorces, which essentially means the parties agree that they will no longer be able to stay married;

(2) a contested divorce is based on fault based grounds, which means that somebody done somebody wrong.

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Uncontested Tennessee Divorce

An uncontested divorce is a divorce by agreement.  The parties must agree on the division of their stuff (money, accounts, cars, retirement, houses, alimony, taxes, etc…)  If a party owned something before the marriage, it may not be divisible because it is separate property. This agreement takes the form of a Marital Dissolution Agreement (MDA).  This agreement has some specific requirements and generally must comply with the rules established by each local court in each Tennessee County.

If children are involved, the parents will have to agree on a parenting plan.  In Tennessee, a parenting plan consists of several things: a day to day schedule for visitation, a holiday schedule (major holidays, summer, spring, fall and winter break), a determination of financial requirements through child support, life insurance and health care, and also a division of the tax credit.  The parenting plan is usually very specific and is designed for the time when the parents may have a dispute.  Tennessee Blank Parenting Plan

Once these two documents are completed and the statutory waiting period has ended, the parties can be divorced.  This is done through a final decree and notice of hearing.

Contested Divorce

This is usually a knock down drag out fight.  The pattern in a contested divorce normally involves these parts: (1) filing of a contested complaint, (2) motions involving support, paternity, possession of the home, custody etc, (3) mediation, (4) interrogatories, (4) depositions, (5) trial preparation, (5) trial brief and (6) trial.  Some time there will also be a requirement for a forensic accounting if there is a dispute over where all the money has gone.

Generally, the filing of the divorce complaint begins the process.  In a contested divorce fault-based grounds will be alleged and the other party will need to be served the paperwork.  What this means is that a process server, postal worker or sheriff will need to get the paperwork into the other party’s hands.  Once this is done, they have thirty days to respond to the paperwork.  After thirty days, if there is not response, the filing party may file a motion for default.

If the party responds with an answer and “counter-complaint,” then the original filing party must file an answer to the new filings.  At this point, generally it is on like donkey-kong.


Motions come next. Motions request the Court to do something of a temporary nature to set the terms of how the couple is to live until the final decree.  For example, many times one party or the other will file a Motion to Set Support. This can be in the form of Alimony or Child Support or Both. Once the Court orders support, the order will normally last until the final hearing.


Mediation is required by state law.  Mediation is designed to get the parties to resolve the divorce through the use of an neutral attorney or a Rule 31 mediator.  Mediation can be done with or without the participation of the party’s attorney.  Generally, what takes place is that the parties sit down in one room and try to hash out the terms of the divorce.  The goal here, once again, is to create a Marital Dissolution Agreement and Parenting Plan (see uncontested divorce).  If the party’s can’t come up with a complete agreement, many times it is helpful if they just agree on parts of the divorce.


The Discovery process through Interrogatories and Depositions usually has proceeded throughout the divorce.


Trial preparation will require preparation of witnesses, filing of trial briefs, preparation of evidence for the court and preparation of the client.  This is done after the evidence is gathered through discovery and will follow the rules of the local court.

A divorce trial can be disappointing for the client.  Many times clients are more concerned with vindication and justice than they are with the distribution of their assets.  The judge is generally less interested in sorting out the fault than he or she is in splitting the parties’ stuff and creating a parenting plan that is in the best interest of the child.

What the judge wants is what is going to happen in trial, so for the most part, the lawyers will spend a limited amount of time having clients and witnesses testify about adultery, abuse, etc.  The real crux of the argument will be on issues such as equitable division of property, custody of the kids, alimony, attorney fees, and the granting of the divorce.

Once the judge rules, the Court will put out an order that outlines all of the issues that were brought up in the final hearing.  This order becomes final and the parties are divorced.

If one side or the other disagrees with the ruling, the have a limited amounted of time to appeal and may go to the next higher court to ask that court to grant relief.

Also, later on down the line, as things change, one party or the other may want to reopen the divorce to have the judge review some or all of the determinations.

In my experience, a contested divorce should never be handled pro se in Tennessee.  Pro se is when a client represents themselves.  There are just too many issues and a divorce in Tennessee can be too complex for a client to represent themselves.  They will be at a serious disadvantage in front of the judge.

I hope this helps.  If you need an appointment, text (931) 217-7648

One thought on “Tennessee Divorce Info

  1. Greatly appreciate the knowledge of what to expect if my husbands attorney takes me to court. I was actually thinking of representing mysel, what a mistake that would be. Thank you again for the valuable information on your site.

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